[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/vychova-deti-jakych-chyb-se-otcove-dopousteji-nejcasteji\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/vychova-deti-jakych-chyb-se-otcove-dopousteji-nejcasteji\/","headline":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed: jak\u00fdch chyb se otcov\u00e9 dopou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nej\u010dast\u011bji","name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed: jak\u00fdch chyb se otcov\u00e9 dopou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nej\u010dast\u011bji","description":"1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nejednotn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova ze strany rodi\u010d\u016f V\u011bt\u0161inou se nejv\u00edce probl\u00e9m\u016f nad\u011bl\u00e1 t\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1 otec jin\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy o v\u00fdchov\u011b ne\u017e matka. Zat\u00edmco jeden z rodi\u010d\u016f prosazuje nap\u0159\u00edklad \u0159\u00e1d, hranice a p\u0159\u00edmost, druh\u00fd rodi\u010d je zast\u00e1ncem n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b omezujete v\u00a0jeho v\u00fdchov\u011b, deformujete ho a vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edte mu zbyte\u010dn\u00e1 traumata, kter\u00e1 negativn\u011b ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed jak jeho \u017eivot […]","datePublished":"2023-04-28","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"tevacz.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9cae764794acc12213aa530e21558ed2bd96c03f91e0c3ad21cc1905765be658?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9cae764794acc12213aa530e21558ed2bd96c03f91e0c3ad21cc1905765be658?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"tevacz.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"url":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/vychova-deti-jakych-chyb-se-otcove-dopousteji-nejcasteji\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":457,"articleBody":"1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nejednotn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova ze strany rodi\u010d\u016f V\u011bt\u0161inou se nejv\u00edce probl\u00e9m\u016f nad\u011bl\u00e1 t\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1 otec jin\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy o v\u00fdchov\u011b ne\u017e matka. Zat\u00edmco jeden z rodi\u010d\u016f prosazuje nap\u0159\u00edklad \u0159\u00e1d, hranice a p\u0159\u00edmost, druh\u00fd rodi\u010d je zast\u00e1ncem n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b omezujete v\u00a0jeho v\u00fdchov\u011b, deformujete ho a vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edte mu zbyte\u010dn\u00e1 traumata, kter\u00e1 negativn\u011b ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed jak jeho \u017eivot a vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama \u010di okol\u00ed, tak i jeho osobnost. Jedn\u00e1 se pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b o to nejhor\u0161\u00ed, co rodi\u010de mohou p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b ud\u011blat. D\u011bti se u\u010d\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee kop\u00edruj\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f. Rodi\u010de nemohou b\u00fdt p\u0159ed d\u00edt\u011btem proti sob\u011b, proto\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nebude v\u011bd\u011bt, \u010d\u00edch rozhodnut\u00ed se m\u00e1 dr\u017eet a jak\u00e1 pravidla plat\u00ed, proto bude m\u00edt cel\u00fd \u017eivot probl\u00e9m s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee nebude v\u011b\u0159it jedn\u00e9 ani druh\u00e9 stran\u011b, nenau\u010d\u00ed se \u0159\u00e1d a nebude schopn\u00e9 se p\u0159izp\u016fsobit, co\u017e mu m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1\u017en\u011b ubl\u00ed\u017eit v\u00a0kari\u00e9rn\u00edm i osobn\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b.2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ned\u016fslednost p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011bPokud stanov\u00edte d\u00edt\u011bti pravidla, mus\u00edte je dodr\u017eovat. Pokud jim popust\u00edte uzdu\u00a0 a nech\u00e1te je jednou jedinkr\u00e1t m\u00edt to, co cht\u011bj\u00ed, tedy poru\u0161it pravidla, d\u00edt\u011b si to zapamatuje a bude se do\u017eadovat dal\u0161\u00edho a dal\u0161\u00edho poru\u0161en\u00ed, proto\u017ee kdy\u017e to \u0161lo poru\u0161it jednou, p\u016fjde to zase. T\u00edm otravn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bude chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte a t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u0161ance je, \u017ee se dopust\u00edte k\u0159iku nebo uhozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte.3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 K\u0159ik a v\u00fdchova v\u00a0afektu Vztek, afekt a siln\u00e9 emoce k\u00a0\u017eivotu pat\u0159\u00ed. Nem\u011bli byste sv\u00e9 vztekl\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edhody p\u0159ed d\u011btmi kr\u00fdt, proto\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b se pak nau\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee m\u00edt emoce je \u0161patn\u011b, a proto by je m\u011blo skr\u00fdvat. Nav\u00edc emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed volnost znamen\u00e1, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b si nevychov\u00e1 trauma t\u00edm, \u017ee bude dr\u017eet emoce v\u00a0sob\u011b a ub\u00edjet se t\u00edm.Ov\u0161em velkou chybou je sna\u017eit se d\u00edt\u011b ve vzteku vychovat. Nap\u0159\u00edklad kdy\u017e ve vzteku p\u0159ik\u00e1\u017eete d\u00edt\u011bti n\u011bco ud\u011blat nebo se n\u011bjak chovat, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b d\u00edt\u011bti \u0159eknete do o\u010d\u00ed n\u011bco, co byste rozhodn\u011b s\u00a0chladnou hlavou ne\u0159ekli. D\u00edt\u011b si to zapamatuje na cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Pokud se to stane, mus\u00edte za d\u00edt\u011btem j\u00edt, omluvit se mu a dob\u0159e si o tom promluvit. Vysv\u011btlit mu, \u017ee jste to nemysleli v\u00e1\u017en\u011b.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.9\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed: jak\u00fdch chyb se otcov\u00e9 dopou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nej\u010dast\u011bji","item":"https:\/\/www.tevacz.cz\/vychova-deti-jakych-chyb-se-otcove-dopousteji-nejcasteji\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]